Thursday, September 25, 2008

How To Treat Your Girlfriend

This is how you should treat your girlfriend.

  1. Make sure you never lie to her. You will be found out.
  2. Never refuse to kiss her in public, just say to yourself, "If they laugh at me, they're jealous!". Of course, there are some people who think this is shame--try using neutral forms of expressing (eg. letters) instead!
  3. Don't be afraid to touch her. Why would she be going out with you if she didn't want your touch?
  4. Compliment her. It will mean a lot to her.
  5. Always open doors for her and pull her seat out for her,This is basic etiquette for a gentleman. Watch her go into the house, stay there until the door closes!
  6. Never make a fool out of a girl in front of anyone. This could lead to hurt feelings, and her hand at your face.
  7. Be yourself. Don't put on a fake show of yourself.
  8. Don't use her!!!
  9. Make her feel like the BEST THING in your life. She probably is!!
  10. When you are spending time with her, make sure she has your attention. Make sure you listen to her and talk to her. Just sitting beside her DOESN'T count as time together.
  11. LITTLE things mean a lot! A love note, rose, sweet text message or things like this just to let her know you are thinking of her and care for her.
  12. Be the man, pay for things at times. Girls don't like to have "kept" men. (Note: this rule depends on who you're dating. If she routinely objects to you paying for everything on your dates, it is probably better for your relationship to let her pay sometimes, or go dutch. This way she will not resent you or feel like her opinions mean nothing to you.)
  13. Don't call your girlfriend "hot" or "sexy", words like beautiful or gorgeous mean a lot more to her. (Note: once more, this depends on the girl. You know her best, so use your judgment.)
  14. Text or call her every night before you go to sleep and every morning when you wake up. It makes her feel special. (Note: Or stalked. Tread carefully.
Extra tips
  • Gifts don't need reasons to be given. Buy your girlfriend gifts on normal days. If you have no idea what gift to be given, send her a letter in a card (begin with affection).
  • Hugs will give off the message that you are affectionate, and want to hold her.
  • Ask her on dates often. (They don't have to cost anything: going to a park is always nice, or the beach)


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